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Thomas DURHAM, Sr.

Male Bef 1661 - Bef 1715  (< 53 years)


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  • Name Thomas DURHAM 
    Suffix Sr. 
    Birth Bef 6 Mar 1661 
    Christening 6 Mar 1661 
    Gender Male 
    Will 4 Aug 1711  North Farnham Parish, Richmond County, VA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Death Bef Feb 1715  North Farnham Parish, Richmond County, VA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Probate 1 Jun 1715  Richmond County, VA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Burial North Farnham Episcopal Church Cemetery, Farnham, Richmond County, VA [?] Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Notes 
    • (1) Article posted by Roberta Estes to her blog, DNAeXplained - Genetic Genealogy <https://dna-explained.com/>, on May 20, 2017:

      We know nothing about Thomas Durham's early life, except it's unlikely that he was born on the Northern Neck of Virginia. In 1652, in Northumberland County, part of which ultimately became Richmond County, all men had to sign an oath of loyalty, and there is no Durham name among the signers. . . .

      We don't know where Thomas Durham came from, but we do know that the first record that includes Thomas is found in the Farnham Parish church register with the birth of his daughter, Mary, to Thomas and Dorothy Durham on June 5, 1686.

      Additional births attributed to Thomas and Dorothy were for son, Thomas on June 17, 1690 and son John on November 23, 1698.

      These records suggest that Thomas was already married to Dorothy who has been reported to be related to the Smoots by sometime in 1685, if not earlier. . . .

      If you sign on to Ancestry or any other site and look at trees, you'll find the persistent rumor that Thomas Durham is the son of Governor Henry Thomas Durham who had a son, Thomas, born about 1634.

      Unfortunately, there is not one shred of evidence to connect the two. Several trees also have the Governor passing away in 1694 in North Farnham Parish in Richmond County. I can assuredly tell you that there are absolutely NO records to corroborate this information. . . .

      While we know quite a bit about the life of Thomas Durham from 1686 on, we know absolutely nothing about his life before that time. Was he perhaps an indentured servant, fulfilling his obligation before he could marry?

      He certainly did not come to the Northern Neck with any money, because he did not purchase land until 21 years after his presence is the area is first known. He never owned slaves which was very common for plantation owners, although he did have at least two indentured servants - one of which gave him two grandchildren.

      Thomas Durham Sr. remains, in very large part, a mystery.

      (2) Message posted by genealogy.com user to the Durham Genealogy Forum on December 13, 1998:

      Sorry, guys, LDS records notwithstanding, Thomas DURHAM 1661/1715 of Richmond Co. VA married to Dorothy ??? is NOT the son of Gov. Henry DURHAM of Bermuda. I bought that story too, but couldn't prove it was the same Thomas. Finally I wrote Bermuda Archives, and received an abstract of a lawsuit filed in Bermuda in 1734 that definitely proved that the Thomas who was born to Gov. Hunt [?] lived and died in Bermuda where he had a son "Richard Durham of Sandys tribe marriner Eldest son and heir of Thomas Durham Late of the same Gent: dec'd, who was the son of Henry Durham, Esq. "The suit was in regard to property in Bermuda lately in the possession of Judith DURHAM, Henry's wife. I would love to know also who the parents of our Thomas of Virginia were, but they weren't Henry and Judith Hunt DURHAM of Bermuda. I will say there is an outside chance there could be a collateral relationship, since the father of Henry DURHAM of Bermuda also named Thomas had other sons, who also may have had a son named Thomas, and of course there was trading, etc. between Bermuda and Virginia during that time, of which scant records were kept. Incidentally, since these are our ancestors also, Jim, I'd be really pleased to hear from you about clues you have for the possible family for Dorothy and her sisters.

      (3) Darden, Newton Jasper, "Darden Family History," Washington, DC: 1953, Edited, Revised and Enlarged by Leroy W. Tilton, 1957, pp. 117-118:

      Thomas Durham and his wife Dorothy, parents of Mrs. Mary Dodson, lived in North Farnham in Richmond Co. and had at least the following ch. . . : Mary Durham, b. June 5, 1686; Thomas Durham, b. June 27, 1690; and John DURHAM, b. Nov. 23, 1698.

      The will of Thomas Durham was dated Aug. 4, 1711, and witnessed by Joan Searles, Arthur Kay, and Miles Walters. It was proved June 1, 1715, in Richmond Co. Previously, about Feb. 1714, the widow had married Jeremiah Greenham. The will mentions wife Dorothy, son Thomas and Mary, his wife, son John, daughter Mary Dodson, and grandson Thomas Dodson. Daughter Mary Dodson received 2000 pounds of tobacco. . . .

      (4) www.findagrave.com:

      Thomas Durham
      Birth: 1660, Farnham, Richmond County, Virginia, USA
      Death: May 30, 1715, Farnham, Richmond County, Virginia, USA

      My 9th Great Grandfather

      Son of Henry Thomas Durham & Judith Hunt

      Married Dorothy Smute/Smoot in 1681 at North Farnham, Richmond, Virginia

      To this union 4 children were born:

      John 1684
      Mary 1686-1715
      Thomas John 1690-1735
      John 1698-1722

      [Note by compiler: The compiler has not found a record of the birth or christening of the John DURHAM who was purportedly born in 1684.]

      Actually burial location is unknown, but it seems likely they would be buried in this cemetery

      Family links: Spouse: Dorothy Smute/Smoot Durham (1663 - 1714); Children: Mary Durham Dodson (1686 - 1740)

      Burial: North Farnham Episcopal Church Cemetery, Farnham, Richmond County, Virginia, USA

      Created by: Rochelle C
      Record added: Feb 01, 2015
      Find A Grave Memorial# 142098660
    Person ID I42629  Frost, Gilchrist and Related Families
    Last Modified 17 Apr 2024 

    Family Dorothy GILBERT[?],   b. 7 Apr 1663, North Farnham Parish, Richmond County, VA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. Aft 9 Feb 1725 (Age > 62 years) 
    Marriage Bef 5 Jun 1686 
    Children 
     1. Mary DURHAM,   b. Bef 5 Jun 1686, North Farnham Parish, Richmond County, VA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 1 Jan 1715 (Age > 28 years)
     2. Thomas DURHAM, Jr.,   b. Bef 27 Jun 1690, North Farnham Parish, Richmond County, VA Find all individuals with events at this location
     3. John DURHAM,   b. Bef 23 Nov 1698, North Farnham Parish, Richmond County, VA Find all individuals with events at this location
    Family ID F18361  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 17 Apr 2024